From now on for the rest of our lives, 
these following holidays are going to be 
the Fall Of Our Lives.

We are going to have ups and downs but the downs will specially be during Holidays, Birthdays and Anniversaries.

Hold on to those memories and you'll see that life itself gives you the strength that you need to get through  this horrible tragedy.

Just because they are gone it doesn't mean that you can't keep them alive in your heart. 

 I always loved this poem because we do need that wisdom:

God grant us the serenity to accept the thing we can not change, the power to change the things we can,  and the wisdom to know the difference.