Sarah's Sibling Survey

GENERAL INFORMATION Your Name: (Only for my Use)
Your email address: Optional but appreciated.
Where you're from? City	State  or Country
How many siblings you have lost:	M F
Your Age now:
How old you were when you lost them:
How old was your sibling when they died?
What did they die from?
ANGER
Did you ever experience anger at the death of your sibling? Yes No If you answered yes: At who? God Sibling Other If other: who?
At what time was the worse? Right Afterwards A year Later Other If other:

GUILT Did you ever experience guilt during your grief? Yes No If you answered yes: At what time was it the worse? Right Afterwards A year Later Other If other: Has it gone away or changed in intensity?

DENIAL Did you ever experience denial during your grief? Yes No If you answered yes: How long did it take you to accept that you would never see your sibling again and not pretend that they were just away somewhere, etc?

REGRETS What is your biggest regret?

SUPPORT Did your friends support you at the beginning of your grief journey? Yes No If so, for how long did they give support? Did many back away from you? Did your extended family support you at the beginning of your grief journey? Yes No Is so, for how long did they give support? Did many back away from you and/or your parents? Where have you gotten the most support?

THERAPY/DEPRESSION Have you ever received therapy for help/support getting through your grief? Yes No If yes: How many different therapists have you seen? For how long did you see a therapist? Do you think they helped you? Have you ever suffered from depression: Yes No If so, were you on antidepressants: Yes No What kind: For how long: Have you ever thought about committing suicide to get away from the pain: Yes No Have you ever tried to commit suicide: Yes No

SIGNS FROM YOUR SIBLING Do you believe that those of us left behind can receive signs from our siblings that they're alright, watching over us, etc: Yes No If so: Have you ever received signs from your sibling?

QUESTIONS What is one thing you wish everyone could know about losing a sibling? What is the best thing someone can do/say when they find out that you have lost a sibling or are grieving? What is the worst thing: Do you believe that grief is a process like in the text books, that we're in one certain stage for a certain amount of time, get through it and move to the next: Do you worry about losing other siblings and/or family members: Yes No Any additional comments? Contact Sarah if you have any questions: Sarah Davis How did you hear about us, please click on the drop down arrow below? Ashleigh's Memorial Site Search Engine Michael's Memorial Site If none, please email me how you found us. Other If search engine, which one? This site is dedicated In Loving Memory of my sister, Ashleigh © Sarah Bruner 2005 Home | Webmaster | Thanks Michael's Memorial Pages | Support Groups | Our Sibling's Memorials | Sibling Survey | My Mother's Memorial Lynita's Memorial | Nicholas, my Son |Our New Arrival "Baby Tommy" | Poem Directory | Depression | News Releases | Baby "Caden Michael" Holidays | Links | Awards | Sept 11th Tribute | Thanks for visiting! | Message Board | Books on Siblings